Anonymous asked:
Hey im a girl and well a week and half ago my girlfriend cheated on me. Ive been with her for 10 months and she cheated on me for a month with some guy. ever since then my insecurities have been through the roof and i have no idea what to do ive been trying to work things out with her make her show me that she wants me and i just feel like shes not doing a very good job. Ugh i really love her but i just idk what to do what do you think i should do?

im sorry about what she did .. I know that it must hurt so much. I know that you will feel really insecure.. but you’re not the one with the problem, for her to go and cheat she is.. sometimes people cheat for no reason, it’s not because there’s anything wrong with you. Are you and her trying to sort things out then or is it finished? I know you love her and i believe that everyone deserves second chances, but only you know whether or not you can trust her.. a lot of people say once a cheater always a cheater. You need to try and remember though that it’s not your fault and there’s nothing wrong with you.. as much as I know it hurts sometimes letting go is the best thing to make room for new things.. somebody will come along one day and treat you right. Saying that, if you’re wanting to give her a second chance then that’s your choice too<3

I know you’re going through a hard time..

And it might have felt this way for months or even years. I know it feels like it won’t ever get better, and the happiness you carried inside you before won’t ever come back.. but you need to believe me, no matter what you’ve been through, that when I say it gets better I honestly mean it from the bottom of my heart. Sometimes it doesn’t get better in the way you think it might.. someone who you can’t even imagine coming into your life might come and make things better, something might change and things will get better, or maybe things will just get better by themselves. Time is an amazing healer.. you could have been suffering for 10 years but you can’t give up. I know you will want to but you can’t.. no matter how long you’ve been going through what you’re going through, it is temporary.. don’t make a permanent decision on a temporary problem. Don’t give up.. ever. It might stormy now but it can’t rain forever. 

Anonymous asked:
You are an amazing person. You're the reason i hold on. I want to thank you for that <3

thank you so much you don’t realise how much this means to me. You are lovely, thank you thank you thank you <3

Hey everyone!! If you’re from the UK and you see this, please please take a minute to have a look, it takes 2 mins and I would appreciate it so much if you sign

I’m not a victim of this horrific crime, but I know people who are, and I know from their experiences in a lot of cases there is nowhere near enough support for the victims. Too often are we seeing the victims made out to be the criminals.
Please please could I ask for 1 minute of your time to sign this, I made it and it would mean a lot, thank you so much x